The first part of this passage from Matthew can seem harsh for those choosing to follow the Lord. It seems to require giving up almost everything.
But, as in any major life commitment, you simply have to give some things up. Married persons relinquish some individual freedom, autonomous decision-making, total financial control. But they make that choice willingly because marriage is intended to give them things: Love, companionship, and family.
When you commit to being a follower of Christ, you have to give some things up as well: Some individual freedom, some of your money, perhaps some of the relationships that you have formed in your life. But a disciple makes that choice willingly because of the blessings that come with following Christ.
So the opening words of Jesus in this passage shouldn't trouble you. They are a call to live a wonderful life, to recognize what a gift it is to be so loved by the Lord ... and to be able to love the Lord in return.
- Little Burgundy Book, Diocese of Saginaw